A person's personality, attitude, lifestyle and all the
I've been talking to a few good mates of mine.
as in, deep talks and sharing, stuff like that.
I've came to a conclusion, well, it's pretty obvious,
but sometimes, what seems to be the most obvious, seems to be oblivious.
Well, different humans, or people, act differently.
One cannot expect the other to be the same!
And everyone had their way of lifestyle, living, thoughts, aggression, greed, desires and needs.
But one thing that many don't realize, that they think it's always the best, it's only what the THOUGHT it was and is.
I'm pretty sure almost everyone out there tend to think their opinion are the one, the best, the correct ones.
Well, it may be and it may not be.
But many aggression leads to- inflicts, which brings sorrow and grief to the ones around.
Indeed it mostly happens in family- but it happens on other people too,
with your boss, friends- different people!
And it can even be your pets- but let's drop that.
Sometimes, people just need to learn to let it go!
I'm actually really not the one to say so but- I'm also trying here.
Indeed, it's not that easy, in fact, not easy at all!
A person's obliviousness is one's biggest flaw, why is that?
Obliviousness usually leads to- well, not-very-good-outcome when it conflicts with something- bad.
But everyone has their own flaw(s), everyone.
The thing is, many don't accept it well, some took it badly, some were open-minded and took it easily.
And one big thing here is, after hearing many stories from my mates and all,
the problem always got to do with families!
I actually consider myself really lucky to have a mom who let's me be who I want- and not force me into someone I'm not and will not be.
My dad, well, he's well- pffftt.
But not many parents think so open-minded and understanding-
I'm just never the type to open up much- GAH!
Never mind 'bout me.
Okay, so few flaws and problems I've observed, parenting problems and parents' obliviousness.
Parents tend to ALWAYS think whatever they do is the best, I understand that they mean well and such but they're missing out one very important thing, they NEVER tried to understand their children!
It's VERY important to try and understand your children, not only physically but also mentally-
but what I'm saying here is to ask you parents out there to NOT just barge into your child's room and go,
"HEY YO' SON, HOW'S YER' DAY, EH?".
Don't do that, seriously, that ain't fly- cool.
I mean, seriously, try and understand them, as in, what do they actually feel about things- stuff you've selfishly decided for them.
And do you know, what do they want to do with their life?
What is their interests?
Whatever are they good in, likes and all!
I'm not saying you should or can go pestering your kids, following them around and all!
PARENTS! YOUR CHILDREN NEEDS TO GROW UP!
THEY WILL EVENTUALLY BECOME AN ADULT!
IF YOU SPOIL THEM TOO MUCH TIL' THEY ROT- THE HELL ARE THEY GONNA' MANAGE THEIR LIFE?!
One very common problem here in M'sia, parents don't like the idea of letting their kids going out alone, no parents and all- okay, I get it, it's not safe.
But do you know, parents, ya'll ain't gonna live that long, huns.
I'm not trying to be mean or anything but this is REALITY!
Okay, if they're young, I get it, but sometimes, let it loose a little!
Not everything is bad, ya' know?
But of course, not everything is good either- but what's life without a little risk?
I'm not asking you to throw your daughter out into the dark, walking all alone, waiting for people to
YOU KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING!
We children, teens need to learn to be independent, and by taking the first step, parents has to let loose a little and cooperate with us!
BUT PARENTS DON'T, most of them don't.
You parents have to remember, you won't be there for them all the time,
they will eventually have a family of their own- and what if your child don't know anything?
Spoiling them too much that they don't even know how to bloody cook?
Don't know how to go out and survive in the city?
I'm pretty sure you parents don't want that!
Oh, yeah sure, you must be having lot's of doubts since this damn thing is written by a 16 years-old-to-be, yeah?
Well, too bad, some of you parents just seems so childish that at my age, I felt way more superior than ya'll.
Life's all about gives and takes, there's no such thing as money falling down from trees. There's no such thing as perfect life!
Yes, my mom actually willing to leave me alone in the house and take of my own stuff- trusting me with all.
But do you parents do that? Maybe ya'll should try, step by step,
some children are indeed more of an hardcore and- a little, slow or- I'm so sure how to put it but,
you get my point.
I indeed had learnt to cook, clean the house, take care of my own business, my pets, my...homework and laundry, I think. I just can't handle washing the dishes, sadly, I'm allergic to the dishwasher soap, so I can't wash 'em.
But, at least I know how to do the most house work and things to take care of myself!
Even if my mother will- well, not jinxing, be gone or outstation, I still have my own hands and legs to work it all out!
Well, I do hope you parents at least learn something- if you read this...well- yeah!
GET A GRIP OF YOURSELF- IF YOU'RE A PARENT, YOU'RE NOT YOUNG ANYMORE!
NOT SAYING YOU'RE OLD, BUT, JUST BEFORE EVERYTHING IS TOO LATE,
show 'em you do care about them, and as in you mean it!
And NOT being overprotective.
Peach out, peeps.
